so… i’m getting a job? thoughts on the fall of the coaching industry and why i'm pursuing a 9 to 5 instead

For my friends who want the tea immediately, though, here’s the Sparknotes version for ya:

  • I have evolved into my second stage annapokemon. I am mega queer, mega femme, and polyamorous. I use she/they pronouns now and being called a lady or a girl makes me want to scream in pain :)

  • I have divested real hard core from the social justice space and am instead choosing joy and liberating myself by embracing the fact that I am a problematic, hypocritical hoe. Just like you.

  • I am also mega enlightened *heavy sarcastic* and did the opposite of what everyone usually does; I left my business and started a 9 to 5.

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SO... WHAT NOW? Reflections on allyship and activism as a business coach

Lots of you in the Mixed Hues community follow me for one of two reasons, if not both: my business tips and my radical intersectional feminist commentary on race, gender, and sexuality as a bi/pansexual Asian American woman.

Let’s make something clear, though: Regardless of my struggles, I have still benefited from the same system of white supremacy that is harming Black people right now.

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HOW I LEARNED TO CLAIM MY ASIAN AMERICAN IDENTITY

My Taiwanese heritage is something I always struggled to appreciate and claim. As a child, my mom packed me 鍋貼 (dumplings) and other Asian food for lunch. I can’t even count the amount of strange looks and questions I received. Even when people were saying how much they loved dumplings, all I could feel was how “different” I was.

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